My - perfect kidding. I milked out some colostrum and have been watching her buckling nurse - he started out nursing both sides - however i still was milking her out 1 time per day. Yesterday was my first day back to work since she kidded. When i got home, it was apparent that he has now picked just one side, and her other side was just engorged and hard. It was so full i had a hard time milking her out, then i noticed this just isn't right. That side now seems swollen, the teat is bigger, and the udder has firm "meaty" parts in it, like the floor of her udder on the teat. It is not hot ( it's the same temp as the other side ) and milk looks normal. However with this swelling i can't seem to milk her out all the way, or even tell if she is empty by feel. It does seem to bother her a little too - she is a FF and isn't perfect for milking yet, but on that sides she fusses more then the other. So last night i hot-packed it and massaged it, and tried more milking - but it only seemed to help a little bit. What else can i do ? What could this be ?